Robert N. Oberholtzer passed away at home on August 19th, 2025 at the age of 76 after a long struggle with cardiac and pulmonary issues. He is predeceased by his loving parents, Wilmer and Nancy, his mother-in-law, Charlotte, and his wife Maureen Gilligan. He is survived by many who will miss him including his children Hugh (Crystal Socha) and Cathleen, his sister Ruthanne Ferguson and brother David and their families, as well as the Wise and Rosen families and many others.

Born in Lancaster, PA on October 6th, 1948, Robert - or Bob to many who knew him, Doc and Obie to others - spent his time enjoying nature, raising animals, becoming an Eagle scout, being a varsity track athlete, and taking part in the school marching band as a percussionist. It was these early experiences that instilled him with a deep connection to nature and music.

Bob went on to enlist with the Navy during the Vietnam War. He was trained as a navy medic and found a passion for blending science and caring for others. These passions would lead him into a budding career as a health professional in New York City; first as a phlebotomist, then a physician's assistant, and finally a physical therapist specializing in home health and wound care.

It was during those early days of his career while working night shifts in a Brooklyn hospital that an accidental meeting occurred. Bob bumped into his future wife Maureen one shift, and they would go on to spend the next 50 years together. They eventually moved to Staten Island before settling down in Plainsboro, NJ where they started a family. Bob looked back on his years living in Plainsboro with many fond memories; being well known in his community and often found spending long hours caring for his yard. He took a great deal of pride in the time he spent serving the Trenton community with the Visiting Nurses Association. It was during that time that Bob also worked toward becoming a certified Reiki Practitioner.

Bob lived a life characterized by many passions and interests that highlight who he was. Bob was known to be found spending long hours archiving and sharing his music collection or picking up an instrument to play. He would light up when given the opportunity to talk about the Grateful Dead, Rolling Stones, and all sorts of rock and roll. He was an active member in the recovery community for many years, volunteering for service with "the club" and speaking to young adults suffering with addictions. He enjoyed snorkeling and scuba, gardening and caring for his lawn, caring for many pets, photography, cooking, candle making, and exploring different forms of spiritual or cultural beliefs without any judgment.

He will be remembered for the many lives he touched personally and professionally throughout his life; the strength he demonstrated throughout his life in the face of many challenges; his acceptance of other's no matter their background and his values of service, family, compassion, and his wish that he could help the world experience a little more peace and love.

A Memorial Gathering will begin in Kimble Funeral Home on Saturday, September 13, 2025 at 10:00AM followed by a Memorial Service at 11:00AM.